| Location | Durham |
| Age | 22 years |
| Cause of Death | Overdose |
| Date of Birth | 24/02/1986 |
| Date of Death | 14/08/2008 |
| Visitors | 6,074 since 07/09/2008 |
| Creator |
my beautiful boy.jamie was 22 when he was put to bed by his devoted nanna ruth,he didnt wake up.well
he did but in another world,in his devoted nanna hitlers arms.
"OUR JAMIE"
Jamie wasn't just 'our' child.Yes we brought him into the world,but it wasn't just us that brought
him up.No one person could have done that,it would have been an impossible task!Every member of our
families had a hand in it.
"our jamie" was a beautiful talented child.he came into our life as a whirlwind and left as a
whirwind.jamie had adhd,no one day was the same,no one day was easy!!but we wouldn't have changed
that.
he loved many things in his life,especially his football and his women!!.we heard he was very
talented with both!!our hearts go out to the women that have loved jamie in their lives,as he was
very lovable.
we buried jamie with his football boots,but we were told by his football manager that they weren't
boots.they were ruby slippers.jamie was the top goal scorer that season and was due to pick up a
trophy prior to his death.his football presentation has been suspended until we can re arrange it.we
also plan to hold an annual tournament in jamies memory,for which we are raising funds.
jamie will be missed by many-he touched so many hearts this has been proved by the facebook memorial
site.4 weeks after his death there are over 400 members.
there were approx 500 at his funeral.the police had to stop and direct traffick.(jamie would have
been chuckling at that!)
all his family will miss him,especially carly and jake.the three of them never called each other by
their names,it was always'brother'and 'sister.
i want to say a special thanks to his nanna ruth.who was devoted to 'her lad'we would have lost
jamie a long time ago if it wasn't for her.
his grandad bill.great nanna puppy,great grandad pa g.aunty nix,uncle peter and his cousins
andrew,liam and callum.uncle brendan and aunty katka,aunty kirsten.his aunty shannon,cooky ,uncle
john,kelly and his cousins.also all his great aunties and cousins.our thoughts go especially to
donna,who is carrying his child.xyour baby will never replace you son,you are irreplacable.but we
will support donna and your miracle baby will never forget you.jamie had many friends,and our
thoughts are also with them.
for us our "jamie blot"(as we called him as a small child)death has left a huge void in our
lives.our life will never be the same without him.i don't believe you ever get over the death of
your child,we just hope the pain gets less sharp.our only consolation is that he looks at peace.we
hope that he is free from the pain and that the demons that tormented his body have left him.jamie
was tortured by what happened to him as a child,he fought to become a survivor but didn't quite make
it.he couldnt cope with the internal pain.he often took things out on the wrong people,people he
loved.and he hated what he did.hated the way it made him feel.hated what he lost over the abuse.so
no he was no angel,but he is now.
there is only one person we blame for jamies death.the man that abused him.
although i have written overdose,we still do not have a cause of death.we believe jamie
overdosed.although jamie sometimes didn't care if he lived or died we don't believe this was
intentional.jamie wasn't a hard drug user.we believe he binged on prescription drugs the 2 weeks
prior to his death.jamie was tormented by thoughts,flashbacks etc from his childhood abuse.
his medication was stopped due to a manufacturing fault.he self medicated till his death.
jamie liked to be loved,but it was more important for him to show love.he loved the people he loved
with an immense passion.
jamie is gone to soon.
rest in peace "our jamie" safe in the arms of your nanna hitler.shes finally got her blue eyed boy
back in her arms.
love you always.
mum and dad.(tracey and andrew)
UPDATE.......
jamies son jayden james was born on april the 1st 2009.8 mths after his death...he is our sunshine
through the black clouds.through him we will always have a part of you.x
I didn't know Jamie but.....
I wish that I had. He was clearly quite a guy and it breaks our hearts that people like Jamie had to carry the painful memories of abuse he suffered as a child. Our charity napac has,in a very practical way, benefited from the untimely death of this young man and we want to thank everyone who, in Jamie's memory, has made a very generous donation to this unique charity. I only wish Jamie had known about us before he died because he is exactly the sort of person we need to support and who would have been a great ambassador against child abusers. When I think about all the resources that go towards supporting the perpetrators of these vile crimes, then think about how their victims struggle, well, it makes my blood boil. So thank you Jamie, we didn't know you but all in this office have been touched by your memory and the donation sent on your behalf.When there is a memorial event for you next year make sure your Mum asks me because I want to be there. Thank you all.
Pete Saunders, Founder and Chief Executive. National Association for People Abused in Childhood. www.napac.org.uk.Free phone Support line 0800 085 3330.
hey cuz
hey cuz thought id pop over and say hello i hope your ok up there and in no more pain!!! i see your son his a credit to u his adoreable u would have been a real proud daddy!!! well ive gotta go but i'll b bk soon cuz take care.xxx
Message
When the child you have cherished is taken,
when the light of that promise is gone,
when the faith which sustained you is shaken,
and your days stumble painfully on,
When the sorrows of loss are unending
and your God seems forever away,
find the message your lost-one keeps sending:
words of loving and thanking and mending...
let your child shape the peace of your day.
♥
Sascha Wagner
well jamie in a couple of hours the phone calls started...the phone calls before the final phone call..phone calls between your nanna and i..your dad and i.nix and i..your doctor..i told him you were going to die if somebody didn't do something...i told carly and colin that week...i told you...but you see jamie it didn't matter...by this time you were still breathing but you had gone...despite all good intentions...we had lost you...but really we lost you a long time before..because if it hadn't been this morning it would have been another time..your dad and i knew from the day you disclosed we were going to lose you..it was just when..
so all the whys,if onlys and sorrys in the world ain't gonna change anything..NO-ONE should feel or still be thinking that a year on...don't let people carry the burden you carried son..because you see then the only person who is to blame is winning...again...don't let him..
so one year on a lot has happened but nothing has changed..
i still don't feel like its real...sometimes...
this week has been a mixture of reliving your final week,and reliving the week after before we lay you to rest...today i feel like its your funeral i am going to..i don't want to get out of bed...but i have to..
a part of me wishes the week would be the same...may sound strange to some...but i wish i could be looking at you lying in your coffin...i wish i could be holding your hand and rubbing it till it was warm again...
but you know why more than ever..because for the first time in many years...the pain from your face was gone...you were finally at peace..
i try and think of that through my pain..i will never have peace till i'm lying beside you again..but until then i have to stay here to be with all the many others who loved you..
anyway i will witter on forever...
1 year on...my love for you has never changed..the ache in my heart has never eased..
i love you jamie,always.x
1 year on..it's no easier..mumxx
i said most of what i had to say in the discussion topic..1 year on..it was to long for this bit!!
well baby its a year..i look like sxxt..i've cried all night..and not slept...
i laugh when people say "only the good die young"...that can't be true..cos you were wicked!!
but beside your wicked side..you had so many other good traits..so many things about you is why today you have over a thousand members in your memorial group..and why today we are excpecting over a hundred people to party for you..as i know you will be up there..but don't be wicked for your nanna..its her birthday 2moro..dance with her to bon jovi..and elvis..and dolly parton..all the naff songs you used to play in mine that your mates didn't know about...but that was you son,,daft lad..any music that allowed you to put your hands in the air and dance around like only you could..party lad!!
14.08.08 your party ended in this world..you just moved it to a better place..
love you jamie,always.mumx
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Way up in the clouds high above
Are beautiful angels full of love
They think of their loved ones everyday
And send them peace as they kneel to pray
They say a prayer for those below
Who deeply love them and miss them so
They vanish all their emptiness and all their fears
Mop their brows when they see the tears
Although their is a distance they are by our side
They have seen the emptiness and the tears cried
They are always near and always will be
Alive in our hearts today and for eternity
Dear Jamie and family thinking of you especialy today.A year has passed but your parents like myself will not know how we have got this far.Your loss is unbearable.Loo out for our Anthony and you will be sure to have a great party.Take care.All my love Susan xxx
appeal for piks
if anyone is clever enough as i have seen it on here.can someone do a pik of jamie holding his baby jayden in his arms.he was born on 1.4.09 jamie died on 14.08.08.tx
my baby.
jamie i rarely come on here as i find it so difficult.i am on your facebook site constantly.but i end up getting entrenched in all the tragic stories on here.its nearly a year and at the moment i just feel like its so raw again.i cant stand the pain.you are constantly in my thoughts my dreams and my life.you will never know how much you are missed and needed,i just want you home,always.mumx
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